Hey everyone . I have a question for you .. a tough question really. I'am unable to sort it out alone need some help from everyone .

Hey .. This question is certainly from out of range from the normal blogs and forums but please need a contribution from all of you . ,  if at a certain path of time if a moment came where parents at their last bed/breaths and they want to marry you to marry with their choice instead of what you choose for your life what will you do ???

Before giving you answer please give a thought as you have to take a decision. 

Conflict arises b/w Emotions and love :/

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Comment by INVINCiBLE AMiT on February 9, 2013 at 12:06am

Thank you Jason . Luckily this is not for me.But what if their parents died with there unfulfilled wish ??

As at the time of capital punishment even Police/ Jailer oftentimes asks from the accused what is your last wish we want to fulfill that . :/ and even though accused is nothing for the jailer. its just a normal being and he have to comply with the courts order. But parents are the God's grace they are the one who spent nights without sleep so we can sleep . They almost plundered there life for Us so we can do everything happily. Now at that infatefull time would we left them unheard ??

Comment by INVINCiBLE AMiT on February 9, 2013 at 12:08am

I'm going offline . . 

But everypost will be observe at morning ..

In advance Sukhriya , Thank you ;)

God bless you all 

Comment by Sumit San on February 9, 2013 at 12:14am

All parents want their children to be happy and they will be happy if their children are happy. So, do the decision what will make you happy and parents will automatically be happy for you. Happy??

Comment by Lauren Woods on February 9, 2013 at 2:49am

Do you mean- should you give them a white lie at the end, to make them happy? Hmmm.... I guess that's up to you, personally. If you want my two cents, I would tell them no. Because at their end, surely your parents are still trying to push what they believe is best for you (this other person)- but telling them you will remain with the person who is best to make you happy (the one you chose)- that's not a bad last thought, either. Now is the time to explain to them why you love this person, why this person is right for you, and why this person in reality is best for you :) Have a heart to heart. Promising them a white lie, or perhaps even changing your decision (as said above, the ending of their lives is not the ending of yours)- it's just not worth it. They are your parents, they love you, they will see and they will support you, with the right words. At least, that's what I'd like to beleive. Good luck.

Comment by INVINCiBLE AMiT on February 9, 2013 at 11:46am

Thanks Sumit :) 

Thanks Lauren Woods you elaborated well. :) But in India you know there is a very vast cultures and 50/60% persons still don't argue with there parents for right or wrong . Yes Parents want his/her child would be happy and what we are choosing is best for the rest of his life.See what happenes today finger crossed 

Comment by Pamela Hayden on February 10, 2013 at 9:37pm

We don't give birth for our children to make us happy. From the moment they are born we strive to make them independent of us to lead their own lives and be happy. I can't imagine a parent who truly loves their child asking him or her to do something so selfish; especially at the end where I believe you tend to see things more clearly.

Comment by INVINCiBLE AMiT on February 10, 2013 at 11:41pm

Thanks Pamela Hayden . . 

Comment by Lauren Woods on February 11, 2013 at 1:19am

No problem :) That is true, I'm not familiar with the intense social pressure behind this particular decision. I really can't empathize, but I do sympathize, and hope all works out for the best :) Let us know how it goes! Your parents are in my thoughts.

Comment by Pamela Hayden on February 11, 2013 at 4:48am

Sorry, I guess I didn't really answer your question. I think if it were me I would have to tell my parent "I love you and would do anything for you but this is something that I could not do, and if you love me I would hope you'd understand."

Comment by INVINCiBLE AMiT on February 11, 2013 at 11:37am

Tht's better Pamela :)


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